Casey Winslow 11/19/25 Casey Winslow 11/19/25

How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic

Working as a phone sex operator has radically reshaped my understanding of eroticism. From men seeking simple, nonthreatening comfort to those with complex, deeply psychological fantasies, every call reveals a unique erotic fingerprint. This essay explores one of the most fascinating callers I’ve ever had—and what his religious fetish taught me about the true layers of desire.

Casey Winslow 11/4/25 Casey Winslow 11/4/25

Leaving Portland, ISO Authentic Relating

A personal reflection on kink, tantra, and authenticity. One provider’s journey through the Portland kink scene, finding herself again through vulnerability, community, and unmasked connection.

Casey Winslow 10/16/25 Casey Winslow 10/16/25

Setting the Scene: How to Create a Powerful Ritual Space for Erotic Practice

Whether you're a rope top preparing for a breathtaking suspension, a tantrika crafting the perfect sensual container for your practice, or simply seeking more intentional intimacy, your environment plays a crucial role. The ritual space sets the tone, cues expectations for the scene, and acts as the container for the erotic energy that passes between you and your partners.

Casey Winslow 10/6/25 Casey Winslow 10/6/25

Tantric Massage, Sacred Touch, Energetic Work—What Does It All Mean?

Casey Winslow 9/30/25 Casey Winslow 9/30/25

Exercise: Developing Your BDSM Risk Profile

Terms like tantric massage, Taoist bodywork, lingam massage, yoni massage, energetic touch, and sacred intimate touch are often used interchangeably—but what do they actually mean?

Casey Winslow 9/23/25 Casey Winslow 9/23/25

RACK: Risk is More Than Just the Physical

Let’s talk about RACK—Risk Aware Consensual Kink—not just as a safety acronym, but as a sort of life philosophy that extends far beyond the playroom.

Casey Winslow 9/13/25 Casey Winslow 9/13/25

Poem: Efflorescence

My final poetry portfolio is one of my favorite pieces of work from my time as an undergraduate. I’ve continued to use words to paint my feelings, and I no longer squirm when I read passion. I’ve decided to start posting a selection of my poems, not because I think they’re great, but because they’re meaningful to me, and I want to lead by example.

Casey Winslow 9/1/25 Casey Winslow 9/1/25

Exercise: Finding your Core Relationship Values

Discover your core relationship values with this 20-minute journaling exercise. Reflect solo or with a partner to clarify what truly matters in your connections—communication, trust, intimacy, and more. Ideal for deepening self-awareness and building aligned, intentional relationships.

Casey Winslow 8/17/25 Casey Winslow 8/17/25

Dancing with the Data Cloud: Managing the Self with Conscious Intimacy

The way I envision a soul— and how I help others find their flow.

Casey Winslow 8/15/25 Casey Winslow 8/15/25

How to Find YOUR Dynamic

BDSM isn’t about squeezing yourself into a role that looks good on paper—it’s about building a dynamic that feeds your authentic self. In this guide for newcomers and curious explorers, discover why your core relationship values matter more than titles, outfits, or protocols—and how to find a power exchange that’s both hot and sustainable. Leave your assumptions at the door and step into the art of creating a dynamic that truly fits.

Casey Winslow 6/17/25 Casey Winslow 6/17/25

How to Burn Out in 3 Easy Steps

What do you get when you cross perfectionism, childhood praise for self-sacrifice, and a complete inability to ask for help? Me — a well-decorated burnout artist with a black belt in people-pleasing and a PhD in pretending I’m fine.