
Exercise: Finding your Core Relationship Values
Discover your core relationship values with this 20-minute journaling exercise. Reflect solo or with a partner to clarify what truly matters in your connections—communication, trust, intimacy, and more. Ideal for deepening self-awareness and building aligned, intentional relationships.

Dancing with the Data Cloud: Managing the Self with Conscious Intimacy
The way I envision a soul— and how I help others find their flow.

How to Find YOUR Dynamic
BDSM isn’t about squeezing yourself into a role that looks good on paper—it’s about building a dynamic that feeds your authentic self. In this guide for newcomers and curious explorers, discover why your core relationship values matter more than titles, outfits, or protocols—and how to find a power exchange that’s both hot and sustainable. Leave your assumptions at the door and step into the art of creating a dynamic that truly fits.

How to Burn Out in 3 Easy Steps
What do you get when you cross perfectionism, childhood praise for self-sacrifice, and a complete inability to ask for help? Me — a well-decorated burnout artist with a black belt in people-pleasing and a PhD in pretending I’m fine.

Home, Sweet Home
Sometimes the Universe is trying to tell you something… but you’ve already put on your noise cancelling headphones.

Erotic Padawan
Exciting news, friends! I’m about to embark on a journey to New Mexico for some professional development…

Healer, not a Hustler
How do I respond, as a human being and a professional, when people try to hurt me?

My Birthday Vow
This year, I turn 25 and make a promise to myself to seek joy and balance in my life…

Banned
I was recently perma-banned from a community that I thought had my back…

Do No Harm
Well, the inevitable has happened. I’ve caused my first play-related injury.

Stood Up
Risking your time for someone else has hard consequences, sometimes.