Confused. Alone. Out of touch. Different.

These are the feelings that defined my life before I found kink. Born in an isolated mountain town, I grappled incessantly with sensory needs and sexual desires that didn’t match what society deems ‘acceptable.’

I resorted to self-punishment, wasting my energy on maintaining addictions and toxic relationships. My only solace was the numbness of an eating disorder… that nearly killed me. My life was devoid of strong emotion or sensation. And I liked it that way.

That all changed when I found community.

Becoming an active member of the BDSM community saved my life. For the first time, I didn’t have to fear myself or my desires. I leaned into Life as it is, and vowed to help others do the same.

I firmly believe that whole-body health stems from meeting our needs: emotional, physical, spiritual, psychological. By working on getting my needs met constructively, I found my default destructive patterns… dissolving.

If you’re ready to let go and find more joy in your life, contact me!

I can’t wait to play with you!