Casey Winslow 11/19/25 Casey Winslow 11/19/25

How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic

Working as a phone sex operator has radically reshaped my understanding of eroticism. From men seeking simple, nonthreatening comfort to those with complex, deeply psychological fantasies, every call reveals a unique erotic fingerprint. This essay explores one of the most fascinating callers I’ve ever had—and what his religious fetish taught me about the true layers of desire.

Casey Winslow 11/9/25 Casey Winslow 11/9/25

I’m Not Your Dominatrix — I’m Your Life Coach with Benefits

A kink provider reflects on psychological kink, compassion, and power play as a tool for growth—where BDSM becomes a practice in self-awareness and transformation.

Casey Winslow 11/4/25 Casey Winslow 11/4/25

Leaving Portland, ISO Authentic Relating

A personal reflection on kink, tantra, and authenticity. One provider’s journey through the Portland kink scene, finding herself again through vulnerability, community, and unmasked connection.

Casey Winslow 9/23/25 Casey Winslow 9/23/25

RACK: Risk is More Than Just the Physical

Let’s talk about RACK—Risk Aware Consensual Kink—not just as a safety acronym, but as a sort of life philosophy that extends far beyond the playroom.

Casey Winslow 6/17/25 Casey Winslow 6/17/25

How to Burn Out in 3 Easy Steps

What do you get when you cross perfectionism, childhood praise for self-sacrifice, and a complete inability to ask for help? Me — a well-decorated burnout artist with a black belt in people-pleasing and a PhD in pretending I’m fine.