How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic

Working as a phone sex operator has radically reshaped my understanding of eroticism. From men seeking simple, nonthreatening comfort to those with complex, deeply psychological fantasies, every call reveals a unique erotic fingerprint. This essay explores one of the most fascinating callers I’ve ever had—and what his religious fetish taught me about the true layers of desire.