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      <image:title>Blog - What is Sacred Intimacy? A Guide to Erotic Healing, Connection, and Self-Discovery - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>For all my callers know, I’m ALWAYS dressed like this.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic</image:title>
      <image:caption>New inductees perform a religious ritual midway through a high school football game. Notice the awkward tension.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic</image:title>
      <image:caption>The color white was an important component in all of his imagery. Realism, too, was something he sought crafting these images.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Another sideline ritual. He told me the cheap polyester of the robes was important to him to improve the believability of the scene.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The Mega Church was a highly arousing concept he often played with.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How Working as a Phone S*x Operator Changed my Understanding of the Erotic</image:title>
      <image:caption>A real image of an Episcopalian minister, highlighting the energy of the Divine Feminine.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Vulnerability is the trust of a Baptism.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Setting the Scene: How to Create a Powerful Ritual Space for Erotic Practice - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Emerson Blackbox Theater at Lindenwood University in Saint Charles, MO. Yes, I was a theater nerd, and yes, I still hold a soft spot in my heart for the allure of an empty stage. Space holds infinity.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Setting the Scene: How to Create a Powerful Ritual Space for Erotic Practice - In fact, the bed is one of the worst places for involved scenes—it's too soft, unstable, and easy to fall off of mid-thrust or flog (I speak from multiple experiences).</image:title>
      <image:caption>Decide where the “main event” will happen. Lay down a clean, comfortable base—yoga mats, blankets, pillows, cushions—on a firm floor. This gives you more stability and alertness than a squishy bed, which is better saved for post-scene cuddles or rest.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Setting the Scene: How to Create a Powerful Ritual Space for Erotic Practice - Before anything else: clean your space.</image:title>
      <image:caption>The more you calm your external environment, the easier it is to settle internally. If you can’t fully clear the room, at least organize it and hide distracting or stress-inducing items—especially anything tied to work or daily responsibilities (phones, laptops, dirty dishes, etc.).</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Setting the Scene: How to Create a Powerful Ritual Space for Erotic Practice - Harsh overhead lighting? Mood killer. There’s a reason candles are an intimacy mainstay. Use votive candles in stable glass holders, and always keep them away from flammable materials; there are too many horror stories of decorative fabrics catching flame at the wrong moment (though, I have to wonder, is any moment the ‘right moment’ to burn your house down?).</image:title>
      <image:caption>Fairy lights or battery-powered candles offer a similar ambiance without the fear of open flame. However, candles often provide subtle scent as well. Natural beeswax is lovely on its own, but I also favor warm, natural scents like sandalwood, amber, or vanilla. Choose something that fits your space— just be sure to steer clear of anything too overpowering or distracting.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Tantric Massage, Sacred Touch, Energetic Work—What Does It All Mean? - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Image credit: Vecteezy</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Release after a full-body energetic massage with a skilled partner can feel like floating in a field of stars. Image credit</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is… safe? Photo credit @MrRoper on FetLife, 2024</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A session that turned out to carry more emotional fallout than I expected, 2025</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - RACK: Risk is More Than Just the Physical - Time to share a kink I’m not proud of.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m not totally innocent in all this. I like  wielding emotional power. I like watching someone melt under my gaze. I like knowing I could ruin them with a word (I won’t—but the fact that I could? Delicious). That’s not entirely altruistic. It’s shadow work. It’s the daughter of an emotionally distant mother reenacting old scripts with better costumes. I wish I wasn’t an emotional sadomasochist. I wish I could do this work without that edge. Maybe, with time, I’ll learn to distance myself in a way that still feels authentic, without completely shutting down the energy exchange I find so essential to a meaningful session.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Dancing with the Data Cloud: Managing the Self with Conscious Intimacy - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is not, in fact, a human soul, but rather a 2015 piece by artist and data scientist Kirell Benzi titled “The Dark Side and the Light” that maps the interactions between the 20,010 characters in the extended Star Wars universe.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A bubble-sort algorithm visualized in Python by artist and software developer Kirk Kaiser.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The very first simulated image of a black hole, calculated using a 1960s punch card IBM 7040 computer and plotted by hand by French astrophysicist Jean-Pierre Luminet in 1978.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Kojima Productions and The Mill, WALL, 2021</image:caption>
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